Maybe you don't think upgrading the quality of your marriage is a priority right now. Maybe you feel like things are fine, or good enough.
LISTEN: if your wife wants to do Abundant, it means something. Don't take her for granted. Don't take your marriage for granted.
Your vehicle needs regular maintenance. You fill up the gas tank. You take it in for oil changes. And every once in a while (100,000 miles), you need a bigger tune up to keep it running smoothly. It's worth the money. And it's worth the time.
Your marriage is more important than your vehicle. If your wife says she wants to do Abundant, your marital "check engine" light is flashing. Just like the warning light on your dash, if you ignore it now, it'll only be worse later.